Being A Mother Means Carrying Your Heart In Your Hand

Even if it is difficult, it is important to allow the children to make their own decisions and make mistakes. Because they can only learn and grow through their own experience.

Being a mother is a personal choice that every woman must make once she thinks the time is right.

It does not matter whether you are a little younger or older, when the right moment has come and you and your partner decide to take the step.

Being a mother changes life: other priorities are set, you observe the world from a different perspective, and the way you look at yourself changes you too.

There is nothing greater and even  if you are aware of the responsibility, you are a mother of  suffering and abundance.

It is said that being a mother means holding your heart in your hand. However, the role of the father should not be forgotten. The companion who accompanies you and helps you, enriches your life and is also decisive for the life of the child.

Even if you are a single mother, you have no fear and no doubts, because mothers have an innate wisdom  and the magical relationship with the child grows day by day.

Emotional attachment from birth

Many experts point out that the moment you give  birth means a hormonal explosion. She creates a very strong bond with the newborn.

Oxytocin, a hormone that is important at birth, can not only strengthen this bond with the born baby. There can also be stress, suffering and doubts such as  “Am I doing everything right?” or “Is my baby crying because I’m doing something wrong?” cause.

These fears are normal for the first few weeks. Babies seem very fragile, but in reality they are eager to live. You have a lot of power that is strengthened by the close bond that is already established during pregnancy.

Being a mother: the importance of caressing and caring for the baby

You’ve probably heard that babies who appear to be dead at birth suddenly cry and live due to the warmth of their mother.

The mother’s skin is the child’s extension and that is why  it is so important not to lose this bond in the first few months.

The child is part of your heart and needs you during this time to find security and tenderness and to build a bond that every baby strongly needs.

You know you will always care for your child, but you are helping them become independent, mature, and happy

Your children are always a part of you,  but you will raise them to be good citizens of the world. You know that mothering too much is not good and that your children have to take their own steps too.

Children have to learn to feel useful, to know that they can do things on their own. And to learn that life often requires effort and dedication.

And you will always be there and support your child. Giving him confidence that he will feel safe and that he can reach the stars of his dreams.

You give him the values ​​of the earth, the values ​​of the heart

You will instill your own values ​​in your child that will help them be a righteous, happy person, capable of making this world a more beautiful place.

• As a mother, you will show him how  free to make  his own decisions, hear his own voice, and defend his point of view.
• You will serve your child as a role model every day, teach him to respect nature and all living things. Because we all deserve a respectful and balanced life. The earth is a beautiful place worth defending.
• You will show him what respect means. The value of self-confidence and trust in others in order to build positive and stable relationships.
• You will show him the value of love. Love begins with your child himself and should accompany him throughout life. You will teach it that it has to shed part of its ego in order to love others. It will learn from you that manipulation and cheating do not bring positive results.

Being a mother is not easy. It  lasts for 24 hours, 12 months a year, for  a lifetime. However, it is a beautiful task that is very enriching.

Every day you learn new things with your children. A child’s gaze is a window into our soul, into the pure essence with which many things in life are put into perspective.

Do not doubt to follow your instinct, your intuition, because  your heart will always show you the best way to raise happy people.